Two of them texted a lot, but even the most independent person shared that there was communication daily. Better to find out the easy way and just ask. You are the vehicle, not your relationship. We might spend time together in different ways, but not really different amounts of time. The problem with this dynamic is that seeing each other too frequently in the very beginning forges an illusion of intimacy and dependence, even though each person truly knows that it takes months — or even years — to truly get to know someone. But when you stop to think about it, does it make sense to feel emotionally close to someone you've just met? How much time you spend together when you first start dating is a hot topic of debate in my friendship group.
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